May 28, 2008

Hi guys,

How much sex does a guy need? Is it normal for a guy to want sex everyday and sometimes several times a day?

Thanks,

Dear Anonymous, lots of guys, maybe most guys, want sex all the time. Does that mean everyday? Twice a day? Four to five times a week? It depends on the guy.

It's probably normal for a guy to want sex everyday. However, wanting it everyday and needing it everyday are two different things. Just because your guy wants it everyday doesn't mean you should give it to him everyday. If you don't want sex as often as him, tell him so. Talk about the differences in your sex drive. Open communication in this department is crucial. Otherwise, one of you will be unhappy with either too much, or too little, sex, which can lead to finger pointing or resentment towards your partner which can lead to more problems.

Hope that helps.

Cheers.