July 25, 2008
I have been going out off and on with this guy for the last 8 yrs and we have talked about getting serious but it never seems to happen we have been intimately involved since we first got together but i am just wanting to know if anything else will ever happen or if we are just stuck in the friend with benefits zone?
by Nicholas Ryan
LMM, he is using you for sex. He doesn't want a committed relationship with you. However, you are both adults. If this is not the type of relationship you want, get out of it.
The talks about "getting serious" are a way of stroking the flames of the fire. He's blowing just enough air to keep the fire going,while he benefits from the warmth.