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Guys don't really see me as a human being, but more as an object, especially recently. John was a friend of an ex of mine named Chris. So i should have known better. But my ex and i had started talking again as friends. And when i treated him like one, he freaked out, called me a bunch of things and took it personally that I didn't want to get back together. Later on John and Chris had a falling out cause Chris stole John's girlfriend. Through all of that John and I stayed friends.

After time, Chris apologized and John and he became friends again. Well last month, Chris decided it would be fun to post some very hurtful things on John's myspace (i know i shouldn't take it personally since it's only myspace, but i did). Well John has to approve his comments, and he did. He put up all of those hurtful things.

I was hurt and got into a huge fight with him. He told me he did so that i could see what Chris was saying about me, and I told him that was bullshit. Either I was (a) a joke between the two of them or (b) a way to prove he and Chris were friends again. He told me that neither were true and I needed to not let people bother me so much. I told him if we were such good friends, he used to say we were best friends, then he wouldn't have done that. Friends don't do things like that. And that if that was his idea of being a friend, then I want nothing of it. That was the last we talked.

I found out later he had told Chris that he didnt' believe him and what not. But we've yet to speak again. What upsets me now is that he doesn't even seem to miss me as a friend. It just seems to cement the idea that iw as nothing but a joke and a game between the two of htem. What do you guys think?

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